Lent 3, Year A March 27, 2011 John 4:5-42 (Begin in silence.) Those of you who were here last weekend may have noticed that John and I and the vestry were not here. We were away on a vestry retreat from early Saturday morning until mid-Sunday afternoon. It was, I hope I can speak for all of us when I saw this, an incredible experience and something that I think you will see influencing this place in our future together. A handful of folks from St. Aidan’s, including Lisa Richard, our senior warden, had recently received training in discernment from the Diocese. Lisa found the training meaningful and so suggested to John that she bring it to the vestry during our retreat. As I did just now, we began in silence, and that silence was repeated throughout the weekend. (At first, it probably felt uncomfortable for many. But by the end it was old hat.) And then we spent quite a while talking through, and buying into, a series of “listening guidelines.” The guidelines were things like